Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?
13.06.2025 11:35

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.
Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.
No country for ugly people…
Have you ever secretly watched someone while they were doing something private?
If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.
Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.
If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.
How can one learn to talk frankly?
It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.
People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.
BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.